
Freshmen Frights ā How I Survived My First Year of College
Leaving home for college is both exciting and terrifying. You suddenly have all this freedom, but that also means responsibility. Here are some challenges youāll likely face and how to handle them.
Avoiding the āFreshman Fifteenā
Many college students gain weight during their first time away from home. I thought, āthat wonāt happen to meā -- until it did. Unlimited dining hall food, fast food, and constant snacking caught up fast. But by second semester, I lost the weight by:
- Hitting the gym: Even short workouts help. Find something you enjoy so youāll actually stick with it.
- Being mindful of eating: I started using to-go boxes at the dining hall to avoid overeating and stocked my dorm with snacks I wouldnāt binge.
- Saving flex bucks: On-campus fast food is tempting, but I treated it like a cheat meal instead of a habit.
Managing Your Time
With no one telling you what to do, itās easy to fall behind. I saw a lot of people struggle with this, including myself. Hereās what worked:
- Using a whiteboard calendar: The BEST Investment. Writing down deadlines made a huge difference. A physical reminder got rid of last-minute assignments or surprise tests.
- Sticking to a routine: Setting consistent sleep, study, and gym times helped me stay productive.
- Finding responsible friends: Surrounding myself with motivated people made it easier to stay on track.
Handling Homesickness
Being five hours from home, I missed it more than I expected. Hereās what helped:
- Visiting home when possible: Even short trips back home helped me reset.
- Calling my parents: I didnāt do this enough, but every time I did, I felt better.
- Keeping in touch with old friends: Even if I didnāt miss high school, I missed the people. Staying connected and visiting their schools helped.
Making Friends & Avoiding Loneliness
I worried about making friends, but it turned out to be easier than I thought. Hereās what helped:
- Putting myself out there: Everyone is looking for friends. Donāt be afraid to start a conversation.
- Joining clubs or sports: I joined a flag football team, which helped me meet people with similar interests. Thereās a club for everything -- find yours.
Dealing with Stress
College is stressful, whether itās exams or just life. Hereās what helped me:
- Going on walks: Walking around campus at night cleared my head.
- Talking to someone: A friend, family member, or professor. Just talking about stress can help.
- Shifting my mindset: Instead of dreading assignments, I reminded myself I was lucky to be in college, which helped.
Avoiding the āBroke College Studentā Life
College is expensive, but you donāt have to be completely broke. Hereās what worked for me:
- Budgeting my money: I tracked what I was spending so I wouldnāt run out before the semester ended.
- Getting a job: I knew people who worked online or on campus, and I was lucky to get a job with ĆŪĢŅapp, and it made a difference.
- Applying for scholarships: Thereās free money out there. Most people donāt even try to get it so apply for everything.
Roommate Problems Happen
Unless you know your roommate beforehand, thereās a chance you wonāt get along right away. My roommate and I had our share of arguments, but hereās what helped:
- Talking it out: Donāt let small issues turn into big ones. A simple and calm conversation can fix most things.
- Getting the RA involved: If things escalate, your RA is there to help.
- Setting expectations early: Roommate agreements might feel awkward, but they prevent future conflicts.
Final Thoughts
College is a learning experience in every way. Youāll make mistakes, but youāll also grow. Stay organized, take care of yourself, and donāt be afraid to put yourself out there. You got this!
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