Öğretmenler için farkındalık: tatillerde beklentileri yönetmek

Amy Malloy
Amy Malloy
Sınıfta kitap tutan bir öğretmen

Farkındalık ve rutininiz

Tatil yaklaşırken, özellikle ders vermediğinizde veya okulda çalışmadığınızda, rutininizin tamamen bozulduğunu hissetmek yaygındır. Tatiller ayrıca genellikle birçok insanı, aileyi ve heyecanı beraberinde getirir. Bu bazen dalgalanan duygular, stres ve her şeyin mükemmel olması gerektiği hissini de yaşadığımız anlamına gelir.

Bunun da ötesinde, mağazalar ve sosyal medya reklamlarla dolu - ve kesinlikle satın alınacak daha fazla 'şey' var. Buna ek olarak, nereye bakarsak bakalım 'neşeli' ve 'parlak' hissetmemiz gerektiğini söyleyen mesajlar görebiliriz. Popüler selamlama olan 'Mutlu Noeller' bile bazen bir selamlamadan daha az ve daha çok bir talimat gibi gelebilir.

Bazen çevremizdeki insanlar tatil sezonunda her zaman mutlu ve neşeli hissetmemizi bekliyormuş gibi geliyor. Kendimizi neşeli hissedersek sorun değil, ama her zaman iniş ve çıkışlarımız olacak. Her ne sebeple olursa olsun kendinizi mutlu hissetmiyorsanız, etrafımızda daha az beklentinin olduğu zamanlarda olabileceğinden daha zor hissedebilirsiniz.

Zorluğun üstesinden gelmek

Farkındalığı tatil sezonuna sokmanın bir yolunu bulmak, yılın bu zamanında duygularımızı anlamamız için harika bir yol olabilir. Beklentileriniz hakkında düşünmenize yardımcı olacak ve gerçekte ne olursa olsun kabul etmek için duraklamak için bir an bulmanızı sağlayacaktır.

İşte biraz 'siz' zaman bulmanın ve nasıl hissettiğinizi kontrol etmeye devam etmenin bazı hızlı ve kolay yolları. Bunlar aynı zamanda sınıfta çocuklarla ve evde kendiniz için deneyebileceğiniz ipuçlarıdır.

3 dakikalık vücut taraması

Sessiz bir an bulun. Bu, uyandıktan veya yattıktan birkaç dakika sonra, mola sırasında ve hatta bir dersin başlangıcında olabilir.

  • Ayaklarınızın zeminle temasına dikkat edin. Odada etrafınızdaki seslere dikkat edin.
  • Üç derin nefes alın ve nasıl hissettiklerini fark edin.
  • Zihninizdeki bedeni başınızın üstünden ayak parmaklarınıza kadar tarayın. Vücudunuzla ilgili fark ettiklerinizi meraklı bir havayla gözlemleyin – herhangi bir gerginlik, rahatsızlık veya rahatlık arayın. Ayrıca, o gün veya andan herhangi bir beklentiniz olup olmadığına dikkat edin. Onları fark edip bir kenara koyup koyamayacağınıza bakın. Bu merak, fark ettiklerimizden uzak kalmamıza yardımcı olur, böylece sadece gözlemleyebiliriz.
  • Üç derin nefes daha alın ve devam edin.

2 dakikalık not defteri

Bir şeyler yazmak harika bir farkındalık egzersizi olabilir. Masanızda veya komodininizde bir yığın post-it veya küçük bir defter bulundurun. Öğrencilerinizi de aynısını yapmaya teşvik edebilirsiniz.

1. Gününüzde bir nokta seçin. Her günün başında, her dersin başlangıcında veya yatmadan hemen önce olabilir. Her gün, o zaman, üç tane yazmak için bir dakikanızı ayırın:

  • Gün içinde olan iyi şeyler
  • Zorlayıcı hissettiren şeyler
  • minnettar ve müteşekkir hissettiğiniz şeyler.

2. Tatil döneminde notlarınızı ara sıra gözden geçirin. Bu size meydana gelmiş olabilecek ruh hali ve enerji değişimleriniz hakkında bir fikir verecektir.

Minnettar hissettiğiniz bir şeyi fark etmenin, öٱşپ.

1 dakikalık dolap duraklaması

İşler aşırı uyarıcı hissettiğinde, sadece bir dakikalığına sessiz bir yer bulun. Dolapta olsa bile!

DUR: Ayaklarınızın zeminle temasına dikkat edin.
NEFES ALIN: On derin nefes alın, dörde kadar sayın ve altıya kadar sayın.
İܳ: burundan, göğsünden veya karnından gelen ve giden her nefesi izleyin. Düşüncelerinizin ve duygularınızın ne yaptığını gözlemleyin. Cevap vermelerine gerek kalmadan oturmalarına izin verin.

Ardından bulunduğunuz alana geri dönün.

Umarım bu ipuçları, festival sezonunda beklentisiz ve yol boyunca her anın neler getireceğini merak ederek gezinmenize yardımcı olur.

Kutladığınız tatil günlerinin gerçekten normal günler olduğunu unutmayın. Basitçe beklentiler değişti ve dahası, herkesin beklentileri farklı olacak.

Bunu fark etmek için zaman ayırmak, kendimize uyguladığımız baskıda büyük bir fark yaratabilir. Bu baskıyı serbest bırakmak, genel olarak daha fazla keyfe yol açabilir - öyleyse neden denemiyorsunuz ve görmüyorsunuz?

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