Expressing love around the world: Interesting facts and how to say "I love you" in different languages

Sam Colley
Reading time: 5 minutes

Love is a universal language that transcends borders, cultures and languages. For those learning another language, understanding how to express love in various tongues can be both fascinating and useful. Whether you're planning to travel, connect with friends from different backgrounds, or simply expand your linguistic repertoire, knowing how to say "I love you" in different languages as well as the cultural context, can be a beautiful way to show appreciation and affection. Let's take a look at some of the many ways to express this timeless sentiment and some interesting facts.

1. Cultural nuances:

In many cultures, the way you express love can carry different weights and meanings. For example, in Japanese, "ۤƤ" (aishiteru) is a very strong expression of love, often reserved for serious relationships, whereas "ä" (daisuki) is more commonly used among friends and family.
However, French, often called the language of love, uses "je t'aime" to express love as a romantic phrase that can be used for both partners and close family members.

2. Gender differences:

Some languages have gender-specific ways of saying "I love you." For instance, in Arabic, "????" (a?ibbuka) is used when a woman says "I love you" to a man, and "????" (a?ibbuki) is used when a man says it to a woman. Similarly, in Hindi, men say "??? ????? ????? ???? ???" (main tumse pyaar karta hoon) and women say "??? ????? ????? ???? ???" (main tumse pyaar karti hoon).

3. Formal vs. informal:

Some languages have formal and informal ways of expressing love. In Spanish, "te amo" is more formal and used for romantic love, while "te quiero" is more casual and can be used for friends and family.
?

Privacy and cookies

By watching, you agree app can share your viewership data for marketing and analytics for one year, revocable by deleting your cookies.

4. Regional variations:

Even within the same language, regional variations can exist. For example, in Portuguese, "eu te amo" is used in both European and Brazilian Portuguese, but the accent and pronunciation can differ slightly.

5. Non-verbal expressions:

In some cultures, non-verbal expressions of love are equally important. For example, in many Asian cultures, actions often speak louder than words. Acts of service, giving gifts, or spending quality time can be more significant than verbal declarations of love.

6. Historical context:

The way "I love you" is expressed can be influenced by historical and social contexts. In some cultures, public displays of affection and verbal expressions of love were traditionally considered private matters and this has influenced how openly people express their feelings.

Traditionally, Japanese culture places a high value on modesty and restraint. Public displays of affection are often considered inappropriate, and verbal expressions of love can be rare and subtle. The concept of "amae" (the expectation to be loved and cared for) plays a significant role in relationships, where love is shown through dependency and mutual support rather than overt declarations.

7. Language structure:

The structure of a language can influence how love is expressed. For example, in German, "ich liebe dich" places the verb "love" (liebe) in the middle, emphasizing the feeling. In Chinese, "Ұ" (w i n) follows the subject-verb-object structure, making it straightforward and clear.

8. Linguistic roots:

The words used to express love can have fascinating linguistic roots. For example, the English word "love" comes from the Old English "lufu," which is related to the Old High German "luba" and the Gothic "lub."

9. Songs and literature:

Many famous songs and pieces of literature feature the phrase "I love you" in various languages.

The song, "Ti Amo" by Umberto Tozzi, is a timeless Italian love anthem, expressing deep affection and passion, while in Gabriel Garca Mrquez's novel "Love in the Time of Cholera," the Spanish phrase "Te quiero" is used to convey deep, enduring love between the characters.

Learning these phrases can give you a deeper appreciation for international music, poetry, and prose.

10. Language learning benefits:

Learning to say "I love you" in different languages can enhance your overall language skills. It helps you understand pronunciation, grammar and cultural context, making you a more well-rounded language learner.

Using a different language to say "I love you" can also be a romantic gesture. It shows effort, thoughtfulness and a willingness to embrace your partner's culture or interests.

11. Global connectivity:

Knowing how to express love in different languages can help you connect with people from around the world. It fosters empathy, understanding and appreciation for diverse cultures and traditions.

Writers and artists often incorporate multiple languages into their works to reflect multicultural themes and connect with a broader audience. For example, the poet Pablo Neruda, who wrote in Spanish, has his works translated into many languages, allowing readers worldwide to experience the depth of his love poems. Reading "Te amo" in Neruda's poetry can evoke a universal feeling of love, transcending linguistic barriers.

12. Number of words for love:

The number of words in any language to express love can vary greatly. Sanskrit has 96 words for love, ancient Persian has 80, Greek 3 and English only 1.

Conclusion

Learning to say "I love you" in different languages is more than just memorizing phrases C its a wonderful way to connect with people from diverse cultures and backgrounds. It enriches your language skills and opens up new avenues for expressing your feelings. These interesting facts highlight the richness and diversity of expressing love globally, making your language learning journey even more rewarding. So, go ahead and share the love, no matter where you are in the world.

Read more in our blog posts What are the most spoken languages in the world? and How do English phrases travel across countries?
?

More blogs from app

  • Group of Young Children sat on the floor, laughing with a teacher

    3 creative routines to help foster a safe learning environment

    Por app Languages

    The world is undergoing revolutionary changes, we need a revolution in education too. -?Creative Schools, Ken Robinson?

    In February 2006, the late Sir Ken Robinson delivered a talk at TED titled: . This was some years ago and time seems to have stood still in education since then.?

    Creativity is a key 21st century skill. Our young students need to harness it in order to be successful in further education and the workplace, especially now that technology is advancing at such a rapid rate.?

    So what can we do to encourage creativity and create a safe learning environment? Ill take you through three activities that I use with my own students to help them flourish.?

    Clear and structured objectives?

    To nurture and encourage creativity in the classroom, it is important to have clear, well-structured objectives and routines that give students a safe learning environment. Heres a breakdown of a few you can try in your classroom.?

    1. Monday activity?

    As part of your routine, do something different every Monday and have your students guess what it is. For example, you could change your earrings or only wear one. You could shave your mustache, wear a hat, or do something less obvious.?

    Students should participate too, so have them do something different every week. Select a student in the class and everyone must guess what has changed that Monday.?

    This activity is designed to encourage students to pay attention to each student in the class and notice things about them during the week. At the same time, it will encourage them to be creative and think about how to do things differently and mix up their own routines.?

    2. Friday team building challenge?

    Every Friday, my class play a team building challenge activity which helps them set and follow rules, be respectful to one another, and work and play with students from different circles.?

    Heres a simple, energetic team building activity you could try:?

    • Have students call out all the new vocabulary words they learned during the week. Write them on the board as they do so.
    • Split the class into teams of four or five students.
    • Tell them they have to use their bodies to spell each word (if there are lots of words, pick the top three). Wipe the word off the board and explain that they can stand up, lie down, and use their arms and legs C but they should work together to form the shapes of the letters. The first team that correctly spells the word you dictate wins a point!

    3. "Hurray, I failed activity?

    The final activity is all about celebrating failure. Start by putting students in a circle or a line, and have them each name a color out loud. If someone repeats a color or takes longer than five seconds to answer, they must stand up, dance, and shout hurray, I failed! as loudly as possible.?

    You can select any topic C such as nouns, countries, or, even better, your students interests. The intention is to create a safe learning environment for your class, where students feel supported and being wrong is fun and okay. This will enable students to participate in class without fear of judgment or criticism.?

    Try it out until your students become comfortable with dancing and 'hurraying' in front of everyone in the group.?

    This activity has yielded fantastic results with groups of people Ive worked with, regardless of their age group (young, old, junior high). Participants may feel silly or shy, until one participant starts doing it for fun, and then the rest of the group will start feeling comfortable with being wrong. They will realize its okay, and the exercise will start to flow with greater ease.?

    If your group is shyer or your students are more introverted, you can ask the person who makes a mistake to wear a silly hat C until the next person fails.

  • Older Woman with glasses sitting at a laptop

    12 tips for training older teachers in technology

    Por app Languages

    An assumption persists in the educational community that more mature teachers are much more difficult and reluctant to be trained on the effective use of educational technology. To some degree, I think this assumption has been built on by the digital native vs digital immigrant myth. But as someone who has trained teachers of all ages all over the world, I would say that, from my own experience, this hasnt been the case.

    What I have found to be the case is that more mature teachers are:

    • less likely to be lured by the shiny hardware and the seemingly wonderful claims made to go along with it.
    • more critical and skeptical about the way technology is used in the classroom.
    • less confident when using various apps and websites and less likely to explore the different features.
    • more easily discouraged by failures.
    • less familiar with various tools, applications and services that have become part of everyday life for younger users.
    • more likely to be able to see through technology for technologys sake classroom applications.

    So how should trainers approach the challenges of working with these teachers? Here are a few tips from my own experience of training older teachers to use technology.

    Be sure of your ground pedagogically

    So many edtech trainers are great with technology, but much less versed in educational theory and pedagogy. More mature teachers are more likely to have a more robust theoretical understanding, so be prepared to back up your ideas with sound pedagogical insights and try to relate your training back to theories of learning and pedagogical approaches.?

    Make sure training is hands-on

    Running through a list of tools and ideas in a presentation may have some value, but it doesnt come anywhere close to the impact of giving teachers hands-on experience and the chance to actually work with the tech to create something.?

    Give solid examples of what you have done

    Being able to speak from experience about how you have used tech with your own students will have far more impact than theoretical applications of You could do blah blah blah with your students. Sharing anecdotes of how you have used technology in your classes, the challenges you have faced and how you have overcome or even been overcome by them can really lend credibility to your training.?

    Manage expectations

    A positive attitude is great, but be also prepared to point out weaknesses, and potential pitfalls and talk about your own failures. This might help your trainees avoid the same mistakes and stop them from becoming disillusioned.?

    Make time to experiment and explore

    Dont be tempted to cram in as many tools, techniques and activities as possible. Incorporate project time into your training so that teachers have the chance to go away and explore the things that interest them most and get their own perspective on how they can use them with students.?

    Back up technical training

    Learning to use new tools is getting easier all the time, especially on mobile, but its still relatively easy for teachers to forget which button to press or which link to follow. So back up any demonstrations with an illustrated step-by-step guide or a video tutorial that teachers can return to later.?

    Make their lives easier

    Using technologies that can make what they already do a bit easier or a bit quicker is a great way to start. For example, I have a link to a tool that really quickly creates a?. Sharing tools like this that start from what teachers already do can really help to get them on your side.?

    Do things that cant be done

    One of the most common remarks made by more mature teachers about technology is: Well, thats fine, but you can do that without tech by If you can show examples of technology use that go beyond what is already possible in the classroom, then you are much more likely to get capture their enthusiasm.?One example of this is the use of collaborative writing tools like??and its ability to track, record and show how students constructed text.

    Solve classroom problems

    Being able to spot a genuine classroom problem and show how technology can solve it can be very persuasive. One example of this is gist reading which can be very challenging to teach because students tend to ignore time limits. Cue Prompters?can give teachers control of the text and push students to gist read at the speed the teacher chooses. Problem solved.?

    Plan with long-term and short-term goals

    However inspiring your training session is, and however short or long it is, you should ensure that teachers leave it with a plan.??are great if you have time to work on them with the teachers. If you dont have time to get them to create individual SMART plans, at least get them to think about the first step or the first technology application they will try in their classroom and what they will do with it.?

    Tech can be implemented in CPD

    One of the reasons many mature teachers feel less confident with tech is because they often only use it in the classroom. Showing how technology can become part of their own self-guided CPD and professional practice, and helping them to build their PLN can energize their technology use and make their development much more autonomous and long-lasting.?

    Make sure everything works

    I cant emphasize this enough. Make sure you have updated all your plugins, browser versions, etc., and check the network and connectivity and make sure everything runs smoothly. Nothing puts teachers off more quickly than seeing the trainer fail.

    Having read this list of tips you are likely to think: But all technology training should be like that! Yes, you are right it should, but the truth is we are more likely to be able to get away with lower standards when working with teachers who are already more enthusiastic about tech. So the next time you walk into a training room and see some older teachers there, dont groan with disappointment, but welcome the opportunity to test your skills and understanding with the most critical audience. If you can send them away motivated to use technology, then you know you are on the right track.?

  • A group of children looking engaged on a task whist their teacher is sat near them

    3 opportunities for using mediation with young learners

    Por app Languages

    Mediation in the CEFR

    The addition of can do descriptors for mediation in the CEFR Companion Volume is certainly generating a lot of discussion. The CEFR levels A1 to C2 are a reference point to organise learning, teaching and assessment, and they are used in primary and secondary programs worldwide. Teachers of young learners aligning their courses to the CEFR may wonder if they should therefore be teaching mediation as a standard to follow. Is this really the case? And what might teaching mediation mean?

    This short answer is that this is not the case C the CEFR is a reference work, not a curriculum. So the can do statements for each level are an optional resource to use selectively as we see fit. This is particularly true for young learners, where can do statements may be selected, adapted and simplified in a way that is accessible and meaningful to them. This approach is demonstrated in the many European Language Portfolios (ELPs) for young learners that were validated by the Council of Europe following the launch of the CEFR and ELP.?

    So lets recap what is meant by mediation in the CEFR. The new scales deal with three main areas:??

    • Mediating a text: taking things you have understood and communicating them in your own words to help others understand.?
    • Mediating concepts: collaborating with others to talk through ideas and solutions and reach new conclusions.??
    • Mediating communication: supporting the acceptance of different cultural viewpoints.

    Focusing on mediation with young learners

    Mediation activities may involve aspects of cognitive demand, general social competencies and literacy development that are too challenging for a given target age group or level. These factors need to be carefully considered when designing tasks. However, with the proper guidance it is possible that young learners can engage in mediation activities in a simple way appropriate to age, ability and context. of the potential relevance of the new descriptors to age groups 7 to 10 and 11 to 15.

    Opportunities for mediation in the young learner classroom

    Its fair to say that opportunities for mediation activities already regularly occur in the communicative young learner classroom. These can be identified and enhanced if we want to develop this area.??

    1. Collaboration?

    Many young learner courses adopt an enquiry-based learning approach, guiding learners to collaborate on tasks and reach conclusions through creative thinking. The CEFR provides can do statements for collaborating in a group starting at A1:??

    • Can invite others contributions to very simple tasks using short, simple phrases.?
    • Can indicate that he/she understands and ask whether others understand.?
    • Can express an idea with very simple words and ask what others think.

    Young learners at this level can build a basic repertoire of simple collaborative behaviors with keywords and phrases connected to visual prompts e.g. posters. A routine can be set up before pair and share tasks to practice short phrases for asking what someone thinks, showing understanding, or saying you dont understand. This can also include paralanguage, modeled by the teacher, for showing interest and offering someone else the turn to speak.?

    It is important for young learners to be clear about what is expected of them and what will happen next, so such routines can effectively scaffold collaborative enquiry-based learning tasks.?

    2. Communication?

    Can do statements for mediating communication, such as facilitating pluricultural space, can orient objectives for learners themselves to foster understanding between different cultures. Again young learners can develop their behaviors for welcoming, listening and indicating understanding with the help of visual prompts, stories and role-model characters.

    3. Discussion of texts??

    Young learners also spend a lot of time mediating texts because they enjoy talking about stories they have listened to, watched or read. Although there is only one statement for expressing a personal response to creative texts at A1: Can use simple words and phrases to say how a work made him/her feel, this can inspire a more conscious focus on classroom phases to talk about responses to texts and stories, and equipping learners with keywords and phrases to express their reactions. In this way, as they progress towards A2 young learners can develop the confidence to talk about different aspects of the story in their own words, such as characters and their feelings.?

    Moving forward

    Clearly, it is not obligatory to focus on mediation activities with young learners C but the can do statements are an interesting area to consider and reflect upon. There are some obvious parallels between mediation activities and 21st century skills or soft communication skills, and the CEFR can do statements can help formulate manageable communicative learning objectives in this area. This, in turn, can inspire and orient classroom routines and tasks which prepare learners to be active communicators and social agents in the target language, developing their confidence to engage in mediation tasks as a feature of their lifelong learning pathways.