Should you say “Jane, Carlos and I went to the movies?” or “Jane, Carlos and me went to the movies?”
Use "I" when you're doing something – when you are the "subject" of the sentence.
Use "me" when something is being done to you – when you are the "object" of the sentence.
So, "I" is correct here. Here's the easiest way to know which one to use: remove the other people from the sentence and see if it still makes sense.
Incorrect: “Me went to the movies.”
Correct: “I went to the movies.”
Therefore, it's correct to say: “Jane, Carlos and I went to the movies.”
That's when you're the subject of the sentence, now compare it to a case when you're the object.
Incorrect: "Jane invited I to the movies."
Correct: "Jane invited me to the movies."
Bonus tip: remember to always put other people first. So, in our first example, it is always "Jane, Carlos and I", rather than "I, Jane and Carlos".
Grammar can be tricky, but it gets easier with practice – and a few insider secrets. Look out for the next post in this series, where we’ll explore more common grammar mistakes and how to avoid them.