7 essential phrases for easier conversations in English

Charlotte Guest
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Engaging in conversations, especially in a language that isn't your first, can sometimes be daunting. Whether English isn’t your first language or you’re just looking to improve your conversational skills, having a few handy phrases up your sleeve can make a world of difference. Here are seven essential phrases that can help you navigate conversations in English with greater ease and confidence.

Essential phrases for easier English conversations
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1. "Can you please repeat that?"

Sometimes, you might not catch what someone has said, especially if they speak quickly or with an unfamiliar accent. Don’t hesitate to ask for repetition. It shows that you are actively listening and want to understand. You can also use variations like "I'm sorry, I didn't catch that" or "Could you say that again, please?".

2. "What do you mean by...?"

If you come across a word or phrase that you don't understand, this question can be a lifesaver. It encourages the speaker to explain or rephrase their statement, making it easier for you to follow the conversation. For example, "What do you mean by 'networking'?" can help clarify any confusion and keep the conversation flowing smoothly.

3. "That's interesting. Tell me more about that."

Showing interest in what the other person is saying can foster a deeper connection and keep the conversation engaging. This phrase is a great way to encourage the speaker to elaborate on their thoughts or experiences. It also gives you more context and information, which can make it easier to respond thoughtfully.

4. "I see. So, you're saying that..."

Paraphrasing what the other person has said is an excellent way to show that you are listening and to confirm your understanding. This phrase helps ensure that you are on the same page and can prevent misunderstandings. For instance, "I see. So, you're saying that the project deadline has been moved up?" can clarify any ambiguities.

5. "I'm not sure I understand. Could you explain it differently?"

It's perfectly okay to admit when you don't understand something. Asking for clarification in a different way can help you grasp the concept better. This phrase is polite and shows that you are making an effort to understand. For example, "I'm not sure I understand. Could you explain it differently?" can prompt the speaker to use simpler language or provide more context.

6. "How do you say... in English?"

When you're unsure of how to express something in English, this phrase can be incredibly useful. It allows you to learn new vocabulary and ensures that your message is conveyed accurately. For example, "How do you say 'trabajo' in English?" can help you learn that 'trabajo' means 'work' in English. This phrase is particularly helpful for expanding your vocabulary and improving your language skills over time.

7. "Could you give me an example?"

When a concept or explanation is unclear, asking for an example can provide clarity and context. This phrase helps you understand how a word or idea is used in a practical situation. For instance, "Could you give me an example of how to use 'networking' in a sentence?" can make the meaning more tangible and easier to grasp.

Mastering English conversation

Conversations in English don't have to be intimidating. By incorporating these essential phrases into your interactions, you can navigate discussions more smoothly and build stronger connections with others. Remember, communication is a two-way street and it's perfectly okay to ask for clarification and express your interest.

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